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1.22.2016

Rae of Sparkles New York Police DepartmentI need a vacation from my vacation. I love traveling, squeezing every possible second out of a trip that I can, but geez. Can someone please get this girl a pillow and a nice comfortable mattress? Wake me up in a few days when I’m well rested. Only then will I be beneficial to any of you. Yeah I’m talking to you! All four of you.

Martin Luther King pulled through again this year (I bet his dream never included a federal holiday named after him), and we took full advantage. With a sister (in-law) in Brooklyn, a three day weekend, and money burning a hole in our pockets, we went right to the trusty old web and booked ourselves flights and a hotel. We could do this on the cheap, right?

Rae of Sparkles Times Square

Well…we forgot that we are go-getters. We aren’t just going to sit around in the hotel! We are going to explore. We are explorers. Just call me Columbus.

Our cross-country red-eye landed before 7am on Saturday morning. With seats right next to the bathrooms, we spent more time listening to people’s conversations (and smells!), than sleeping. So what we anticipated being a full day on Saturday was a little deterred. We took the subway into Times Square, where we walked to our hotel. Booking the hotel online, and let’s face it, trying to find the best deal possible, I wasn’t sure what to expect. We arrived at The Row NYC (booked on Hotels.com) around 8:30am. Everyone knows even an “early” check-in usually isn’t until 1:00pm, so we were keeping our fingers crossed. The front desk experience could not have gone any better. Our host let us check in at 8:30am, at no extra cost. Oh boy did we need it. I think we got to our room and were both sleeping less than two minutes later.

Rae of Sparkles Sparkle in Times Square

When we woke, I knew exactly where we were going. I’ve been waiting my entire adult life (okay…maybe just a year or two) to try the cheeseburgers at Shake Shack. Seriously. Who hasn’t heard of the hype going around about good ol’ Shake Shack. This was the top of my NYC travel list. I was doing it immediately. Lucky for me (fate?), there was a Shake Shack directly across from our hotel. I mean, come on. The Gods were shining down on me that day. I won’t go into complete detail here about my experience, but if you’re interested (and I know you are), read my Yelp! review.

Rae of Sparkles Shake Shack

Rae of Sparkles Eating Shake Shack

After Shake Shack we did what ever other typical NYC tourist does. We explored. We went up into Central Park, attempting to make it to the Belvedere Castle…quickly giving that up. Actually, not so quickly. We walked. And we walked. And then we walked some more. And we still weren’t even halfway there. We gave up. After all, there is so much to see in the city, we weren’t giving it all up for a measly castle. I mean, you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. Even though I’ve never even seen one.

Rae of Sparkles Central Park

Rae of Sparkles Central Park Skyline

Rae of Sparkles Central Park Bridge

Rae of Sparkles Central Park Trees

We spent the rest of the day walking around, taking random photos (hence Zoolander below), and eating. Seriously. I have never been more excited to get back to the gym in my life. Between the daily pizza slices (his goal was 7 for the entire trip), the cheeseburgers, and the booze? Ugh. It was rough.

We walked by Radio City Music Hall, went into St. Patrick’s Cathedral, saw the ice skating rink at Rockefeller Center, and did a little shopping at the NHL store near Times Square. He would have spent our life savings if I hadn’t dragged him out of there. Seriously? A $3000 bubble hockey game? No. Absolutely not. I had already gotten him away from the $300 pair of shoes, the bubble game was not beating me.

Rae of Sparkles Zoolander Sign

While the top of my travel list may have been Shake Shack, for my husband it was most definitely seeing an Islanders hockey game. On Sunday, his wish came true when we went to Barclay’s in Brooklyn to see them play the Canucks. While it wasn’t the ending he was hoping for, it was a really fun experience. Anytime I find a full bar at an arena is A-Okay with me. I wish the San Jose Sharks would get on board here. Is it too much to ask for? Just a little vodka would suffice.

Rae of Sparkles Islanders Game

New Jersey Skyline
New Jersey Skyline
Rae of Sparkles Statue of Liberty
Statue of Liberty (wayyyyy out there)

On Monday we had tickets to the 9/11 Memorial Museum. Wow. It was heartbreaking but magnificent at the same time. I don’t think I’ve ever seen such an amazing display at any museum I’ve been to. I think all Americans should visit, it’s definitely a must-see. If you don’t walk out of there feeling happy to be an American, I don’t know what else will do it for you. I have never felt more honored to call myself an American.

We had originally decided to take a ferry out to Lady Liberty afterwards…but that was quickly nixed due to the 9 degree weather and something like 50mph winds. I mean seriously. I thought a tornado was taking me away. Nevertheless, I still dragged my husband (he’s such a good sport) to the shoreline to take a few photos (and nearly died of hypothermia). Before you say it…Yes. I know I was underdressed. Do you think I have a winter coat? I live in California for Heaven’s sake.

Rae of Sparkles Freedom Tower, 911 Memorial

Rae of Sparkles Snowing in NYC

Some of the other highlights of our trip: It snowed!! And not any of that “five feet of snow” crap. I’m talking the perfect light snow. A gentle sprinkle, covering all the surfaces, making everything beautiful. We had a few snowball “fights.” My husband lost. Look, I’m from Wisconsin. I can’t let him beat me at a snowball fight.

Our sister mapped out some of the coolest bars/taverns that we had to see, and we spent Monday afternoon checking them all out. We stopped in at Fraunces Tavern for a drink, George Washington’s famed hangout. We walked through Greenwich Village and popped into a few bars along the way. I mean, come on. It wasn’t just cold outside. It was zero degrees. We needed to keep ourselves warm. The drinking was simply a survival mechanism.

And the best for last. I have a friend from high school that also lives in Brooklyn. We have seen each other only once in ten years, but it’s just one of those friendships. We picked up exactly where we left off, and it felt like nothing had changed. Even though everything had changed. And one of the best changes? Her babies. This photo was captured while I was getting to know her son for the first time. I think it caught the best moment of the trip.

Rae of Sparkles Baby Love

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  1. Jamie says

    1.22.2016 at 5:10 pm

    Sounds like a fun and jam packed weekend! Btw that’s me waving to you from Jersey if you couldn’t see me 😉

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.23.2016 at 6:15 pm

      Ohhhh I thought I saw you over there!! 😉

      • Jamie says

        1.24.2016 at 7:30 pm

        Oh good you saw me haha. You just missed the blizzard!

        • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

          1.25.2016 at 4:10 pm

          Oh my gosh I know!!!!! Can you imagine the hotel bill we would have racked up if it had hit before we left?!

  2. Catalina says

    1.22.2016 at 5:46 pm

    Sounds like a pretty adventurous trip. Also, you’re pictures are gorgeous!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.23.2016 at 6:15 pm

      Thank you so much!!! It was a wonderful trip! 🙂

  3. Martina says

    1.22.2016 at 8:56 pm

    So in love with this post! Did you wind up passing Taylor’s apartment building? Did she invite you in for some hot chocolate?

    I haven’t been to the museum at One World Trade yet but I really want to go. Then I want to go up to the top of the building because, #views.

    So glad you had a good time here! Your pictures are so pretty!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.23.2016 at 6:14 pm

      We didn’t! 🙁 But next time I won’t miss it. You should definitely go to the museum because it was amazing. And we need to go to the top of the building too, it probably has the best views!!! 🙂

  4. Bobbie Beckman says

    1.23.2016 at 7:37 am

    I love seeing the pictures of your travels. Experience all you can!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.23.2016 at 6:13 pm

      Trying to…before we CONSIDER giving you a grandchild.

  5. Ali A says

    1.23.2016 at 2:53 pm

    Your NY pics are amazing! Sounds like you also jam-packed the perfect amount of stuff to do here in a small amount of time. I know I’m biased cause I’m a New Yorker (work in NYC, live in Long Island) but isn’t it the best place ever?

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.23.2016 at 6:13 pm

      Ohhh thank you so much!!! We had a wonderful time in NYC, as always. It is most definitely magical, and I will never turn down a trip there!! You’re lucky you get to live in such a fabulous place! 🙂

  6. Nad says

    1.23.2016 at 7:52 pm

    Looks like you guys had a really good time in NYC! The city is so awesome ;D Too bad that you got your flight seats by the restrooms :/ Love the photos!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.24.2016 at 2:09 pm

      We did have an amazing time!!! I hope you didn’t have to sit next to the restroom on your flight!! Hehe!

  7. Napoleon Nalcot says

    1.23.2016 at 8:37 pm

    Beautiful New York City, the city that never sleeps.

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.24.2016 at 2:09 pm

      Totally!! I barely slept while I was there!! 🙂

  8. Erin Ashlee says

    1.24.2016 at 11:01 pm

    What a great trip and beautiful photos!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.25.2016 at 4:09 pm

      Thank you!!!!!! Call me soon!

  9. Adele Ankers says

    1.25.2016 at 5:51 am

    I really enjoyed reading this post, mostly because “New York” is on the travel wish list but I haven’t made it there… yet, so I totally just lived vicariously through this. It sounds like you had a fantastic time and your pictures are stunning, I thought that I was looking at two models in a magazine ad! 😛

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.25.2016 at 4:09 pm

      Ohhhh you must go. There is SO much to do there and you will love it!! Thank you for saying that about my photos! It’s hard to take a bad one in that city!

  10. Laura McDaniel says

    1.25.2016 at 12:34 pm

    Those ARE amazing photos Shauna – loved the Zoolander one the most. LOL Looks like so much fun!

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.25.2016 at 4:05 pm

      Awww thank you so much Laura!! I really appreciate it.

  11. vivalaViv says

    1.26.2016 at 3:46 am

    Wonderful images! You took me right back to NYC – one of my favourite cities in the world!

    Vivienne X

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.26.2016 at 2:43 pm

      Thank you so much!! It is definitely one of the best cities in the world! 🙂

  12. Rachel says

    1.29.2016 at 2:30 pm

    So jealous! I’ve never been to New York but it’s on my list of places to visit. Such pretty pictures.

    XO, Rachel
    http://www.seashellsandsparkles.com

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.30.2016 at 6:56 pm

      Thanks Rachel!! You should definitely go someday! There is just so much to do and see! 🙂

  13. rianna says

    1.29.2016 at 6:11 pm

    What absolutely stunning photos! I really like how they look in black and white- so arty and a bit edgy!
    I cannot wait to explore America one day, but for now I shall live vicariously through your wonderful photos and posts <3 xox Bohemian Wanderlust, Rianna Beth.

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.30.2016 at 6:55 pm

      Thank you so much!! I loved the way the b&w ones turned out as well! You must come visit! 🙂

  14. Krystle says

    1.29.2016 at 6:22 pm

    This looks like SO much fun! My husband has never been to New York, so hopefully one of these days I’ll be able to take him on a long weekend getaway. And I love that we have the same travel styles… GO GO GO! 🙂 So much to see, so little time.

    I’ve been away on vacation so I’m slowly catching up on my blog reading. The 40th anniversary idea is so creative. I could see it definitely being a tear jerker! 🙂 Such a sweet idea.
    xoxo
    -Krystle

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      1.30.2016 at 6:54 pm

      We had a great time!!! I can’t believe he’s never been there, you guys are traveling all the time!!! You’ve gotta take him there soon!! I can’t wait to catch up on all of your travels! 🙂

  15. Alice percival says

    2.13.2016 at 6:41 am

    Wow that looks like an incredible trip! I’d love to go to New York! ?

    • shauna841505@yahoo.com says

      2.17.2016 at 5:52 pm

      You should go!!! It’s so beautiful and there is SO MUCH to do! 🙂

  16. Britney says

    3.03.2016 at 3:48 pm

    I can totally relate to needing a vacation after you vacation haha! I always pack so much in that i’m going going going and then i need at least an extra day to do nothing but laundry and sleep! it looks like you had lots of fun in new york!! i would LOVE to go there! see a new broadway show every night! ahhh the dream

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